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Ready for a Funeral?

October 27th, 2009 · General

Death almost always takes us by surprise, even when expected after long illness or old age; we are never quite ready for it.  Pastors and staff of international congregations have unique challenges when there is a death in the church family.  Not only is their grief, but also distinctive challenges if the person is an expat, that may need to be addressed, particularly if the staff and congregation are to preside and host a funeral or memorial service.

For example, in the country where I live, a young American male was killed in a bicycle accident.  Before, his family in the United States could be contacted his body had been cremated which is the common practice and tradition in this country.  The family in the United States was shocked not only because of the sudden death but also that they did not have an opportunity to view their family member.  Viewing in a casket with a funeral service in the church sanctuary was an important cultural tradition for this family, something that was not possible in this case.  Furthermore at the funeral, the driver of the vehicle came with a large cash gift in an envelope for the family.  The family had not been prepared that this may happen; in this culture that is common.  Thankfully because of God’s grace the family could respond in forgiveness.

This case simply highlights that it is important for international church staff and ministers to have a general knowledge of what happens when a person dies and the funeral customs and traditions in the country where they find themselves.  As many of the members of an international church or congregation are expat’s they may not have the general knowledge of the culture if and when a death occurs.

Here are some general suggestions:

Have a list of several funeral directors (morticians) and companies that are comfortable with the death of a Christian.  In some countries where Christians are a minority that may not be easy.  And if possible, find out if there is one or two in particular that have dealt with the death of expat.

Have a general idea of funeral arrangements in the culture where you are located.  As I am a missionary as well and work with a local church and pastor, I have a general idea of a typical Christian funeral in this culture and have attended several.

If you have further ideas or experiences, please comment for other readers.

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Transition

October 19th, 2009 · General

Transition in International Congregations

One of the more difficult challenges for pastors and staff in international congregations is the frequent transition of members and attendees.  When members are at ministry, congregation or house church for a year or two, programming and even worship can be difficult.  From my experience one of the first and foremost falsehoods is:

Assume everyone you ask to serve will stick it out automatically … False! 

People stay in the game because they feel needed and valuable.  An experienced pastor or staff person is the one who can keep the vision and purpose before volunteers at churches and congregations as they go about doing ministry that God has equipped them to do.  It is the responsibility of pastors and staff to provide ongoing training and support. We must reinforce their job descriptions and its boundaries.  Good questions to ask are: “How can I better support you?  How can I make things easier for you?  What tools do you need?” 

We cannot “solve” the frequent transition of members and attendees in international congregations.  But we can make the transitions easier as pastors and staff when we drop the falsehood of assuming during their time with us that they will stay.  Yet, on the other hand, we do not want to be pushing them out the door.  Instead we practice better leadership by keeping the vision before us and stand ready to support our volunteers.  Remember that if volunteers have had a good experience in our ministries, congregations and churches, they will be able to better utilize their gifts to God’s glory in their future ministry homes.

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Contingency Plans for International Congregations

October 6th, 2009 · General

International congregations are unique ministries in many ways, with the most distinctive being location.  That being said, international congregations not only have distinguishing gifts in sharing the good news of Jesus Christ, but also exceptional demands.

Consequently, international congregations have multicultural staff to meet these particular ministry needs.  This creates unusually as said above — demands but also pressure. 

One demand that many international churches must have are contingency plans not only for the ministry but also for staff in case of natural and man-made incidents!

Plans for Natural Disasters:

International churches should have written contingency plans for natural disasters that not only affect the building whether rented or owned, but also a plan as a place for sanctuary.  Some important questions to review not only include access to the building — who has keys and why — but also what is the method of decision making in time of natural disaster.  For example, in Kobe, Japan in 1995 there was a large earthquake.  One international congregation was not only caught off guard by the earthquake itself — as we all expect — but by the fact that the pastor was at a conference away from the city.  Since the congregation did not have any contingency plans not only were there personal concerns but also distress about the building, attendees, worship and a host of other factors.  It is impossible to have plans to cover all aspects of a disaster, but even a simple blueprint gives churches a leg up during difficult times.

Plans for Man-made Incidents:

 International churches should not only have contingency plans for natural disasters but also for human created events.  Staffs for international congregations, churches and home ministries, have peculiar needs in an international setting particularly during a time of man-made incidents.  Not only do personnel need contingency plans for natural disasters but also in case of human created events.  For example, civil conflicts catching international congregations and churches unprepared — unfortunately — have not only caused undue stress and pain but have even left staff in more danger.  International congregations and churches are often at the forefront of events because congregations and churches are at the street level tuned to the people and cultures around them.  But, that same view also blinds staff and churches to the build up to events.  “Because we live in the culture of our host, we are well prepared for problems.”  That is a sin that cannot only threaten the ministry but leave people’s lives in undue danger.  Take some time and develop a contingency plan for man-made incidents that may threaten staff and the ministry.  For example, develop a phone tree or some type of means of communication so all the staff can be notified in case of problems.  Some churches even have a safe house or location known only to the staff with a small amount of cash available.  And remember to include a method of contacting family, friends and others overseas.

Again, there is not a contingency plan for all situations whether natural or man-made but, taking time to work on simple steps will provide a basis during difficult times.

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Are You Short Term Long Term?

September 17th, 2009 · General

“Are you short term or long term?” That is often a question that rings around the room during our fellowship at our international church.  In our international church, visitors are common.  “Short termers” are those individuals and families who intend to be in our foreign city for three years or less.  “Long term” seems to be the answer for those who have established careers, families or ended up never leaving.  Of course there are those who grew up in the culture and country that we “long and short termers” find ourselves.  We have a propensity to term individuals in that context, “native” without any pejorative meaning.

We may not be asking that question in the quite same way, if according to a recent New York Times article, the general trend continues (Please see: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/15/business/global/15overseas.html).  Since the financial meltdown of 2008-2009 companies in the US are shortening the length in which employees are spending overseas.  Scott Sullivan an executive with the firm that produces the annual Global Relocation Trends Survey, Brookfield Global Relocation Services, suggests that “short-term assignments, which typically last from several months to a year, have tripled in the last eight years.”  Sullivan further adds: “They’re cheaper because it doesn’t involve bringing the family.”

What are some ways that international congregations and churches have seen that effect?  In our situation that has translated into less families, more single individuals and thus lower attendance.  The repercussions run deeper because one of the difficulties of international churches is that leadership is constantly evolving as people come and go.  There is an international congregation that I am aware of, where the pastor has been there the longest of anyone, although serving for just 7 years.

What can pastors and staffs of international churches do under these current trends?

Integrate the newcomers and visitors quickly and give a joyous blessing when they leave.  In our international church we have used the services of first time visitors as scripture readers on the first Sunday they have worshipped with us and by the same token a mainstay in our Sunday school program announced after summer vacation that she, her husband and child would be leaving as soon as her husband has a visa.  Although sad for her, the young daughter and husband, we rejoiced with them in the time that we had together.

One of the ways that we celebrate leave taking of people, who have been with us, is that we have a goodbye song that our worship band leader wrote.  The lyrics emphasize that together we have found ourselves on a road taken together, that we have said goodbye to others before us, and now we say goodbye to them.

What does your international church or congregation do with the ebb and flow of short term, long term and native members?  What are some of the difficulties?  What are some of the joys?

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“Appropriate” Sunday School Material

September 10th, 2009 · General

One of the primary tasks for international congregations, churches and house groups and their staff including pastors (besides worship) is appropriate Christian education —- particularly for children. Building faithful and active Christian disciples of all ages is a constant mission — thus a challenge. Not only is there the usual “issues” that confront all pastors and staff such as providing thoughtful and helpful insights to the Bible to encourage and admonish a young member’s faith life, but we have the challenge of appropriate Christian material.

Of course, it is not the issue of scripture, rather it is in helpful guides and other Christian material that supplements scripture that may or may not be appropriate for children of international churches, congregations and house groups.

What are some questions to consider when reviewing
Children’s Christian Educational Material?

    Does the material demand a high level of reading?

A large amount of reading in English may not be suitable or appropriate for younger Christians in an international setting especially where more than one language is used at home. Children may have a good grasp of a spoken language but not be able to read well in English. Also, if an international church has a number of children from the local host culture whose parents want their children to hear the good news of Jesus Christ (or learn English) their reading level may not be appropriate for the material. Some international congregations have solved this problem by having a “bilingual” Sunday school program for example. That may solve one problem — language — but it opens up other problems, for example, finding suitable bilingual Sunday school material. There is also the task of finding Sunday school staff that can teach in other languages besides English!

Does the material have unsuitable cultural references?

Although there may be Christian education material for children forgotten in closets with pictures that are — we now know — racist, it is rare to find any that is for sale. Rather, Sunday school staffs of international churches need to be careful because more subtle cultural references may be simply confusing because they do not fit in the experiences and lives of the children. For example, one set of materials for junior high aged youth with which I had success in the United States, I found became increasingly irrelevant when reviewed it in my international congregation. The questions made references to TV shows, movies and games that many of the junior high school members had either never seen or perhaps not understood in the same way. Furthermore, the material made reference to a child’s life in schools and home to make the questions relevant for American students, but was lost on my group.

These two questions referenced above are the primary two that may or may be obvious but are ones I have learned the hard way — not to say also expensive mistakes. Some issues are simply irritating but can be adapted … for example the material that assumed copying on “letter” sized copy paper rather than A-4 … and therefore had to be decreased in size, cut and pasted and then copied.

What children’s Christian educational material have you found that works in your setting and why?

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